Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
One Good Dating Tip: Her “Approach Me” Signals
Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?
But, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her.
Some of these are obvious, and some are very subtle. But all should be known by a guy who is looking to meet more women.
One caveat: if a woman does NOT provide you with one of these, it doesn’t now mean you have an excuse NOT to approach her (I know all of the loopholes).
My list (Got your own? Please add in the comments below):
Looks at you a bit longer than is “usual”Looks back to you more than once - the classic “double-take”Smiles at you (duh)Goes out of her way for you to notice her (walks past your table, when there are more direct ways to where she is going)Within her locale, shifts her body language to be more open to youIf adjacent, raises her voice so that you can hear herAccidentally “bumps” into youDrops something near you hoping you will pick it upPushes her hair out of the way, so that you can see more clearly her faceSubtly allows you to see more clearly what she is going; so, if she is reading, she will be sure you can see the book/magazine giving you an opening (subtle, but true)Sits or stands near you, but with her back directly to you. If you move, she moves tooHer feet and hips point towards you, but her shoulders and head don’t.Her lips swell, or become flushed. Her cheeks or neck might change color tooHer pupils dilate when she looks at youShe, ‘accidentally’, separates herself from her groupShe sees you, then adjusts her clothesIf she goes out of her way – in subtle and not so subtle ways – to get you to notice her, then guess what?
She wants you to notice her.
If you notice any of the above, she is probably interested. But, there is only one way to find out and that is to approach her.
Need help with that? Read my How To Pick Up Women article.
Enjoy! Oh, and remember, feel free to add more below…
Sn.
The Ultimate First Impression
I’ve posted a new video over on my “How To Get A Girlfriend” eBook blog which I call “The Ultimate First Impression”.
In it I cover A LOT, but these 3 primary concepts are the major focus:
1) My Baiting Skill - dissected, demonstrated and taught…to YOU;
2) High Social Value - I redefine “value” and share how to build the REAL thing (easier than you think);
3) The Ultimate First Impression - what it is, and how to get it, counter-intuitive as usual.
Go here to watch it:
http://how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/indexufi.html
Enjoy!
Sn.
One Good Dating Tip: When To Say “Can I Buy You A Drink?”
If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She’s practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation?
Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do.
Use the E/S opener.
The Environmental/Situational opener (E/S) is where we approach a woman with a rather simple question which can possibly lead to a longer, more interesting conversation. Some examples:
Nice bag, is that a new Gucci?Do you like this painting?Wow, that dance floor is packed!Boy this line is taking forever.Can I buy you a drink? (yes, you can say it…if she gives you a strong signal of interest…happy now?)The structure:
Notice the environment and pull a relevant question or comment from it that you pose to her. The ONE thing you know that you have in common with her currently is the CONTEXT of your surroundings. So, start from there. Simple and easy (as it should be).
If you are a physically attractive guy, this might be all you need to do at ANY point EVER socially. Or, if she gives you a big smile, or other obvious signal from across the room, then approaching with an E/S opener is BEST.
Remember, never do more than you need. If you have a strong “gut” feeling that she’s into you pose an E/S opener to her.
The E/S skill gets a lot of criticism as it is rather plain and unflashy. But, if she gives you a strong signal of interest, why would you do more? In other words, this CAN be a very effective skill, if used at the right time…
Stephen Nash
Monday, September 27, 2010
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